"Eyes without a face" by Billy Idol would be a great introduction. It is not for nothing that in the 80s "men who speak" begin to sing a speech never heard, men who feel, who live things with an unknown face, distorted by those with an eye on them, those with the image of "man" see them as enemies and unnatural, but only if you teach a man that pride is his nature. It is in crowded streets, in oppressive heat, that the mix gives you a cloak of invisibility, that of seeing with an eye that here does not exist and no longer, that of "there is a name on it" . The double edge of seeing things like this is not seeing how you can be seen yourself. What do we learn from the eyes of the man who sees things sentimentally, if not to give him a reason already oriented, to the fact of being a man with a heart, a sensitivity, an empathy, an ability to express something that we call "femininity", out of pride to say, that it is only reserved for women to be able to cry and admit to the world, their "weakness" of being able to be human, fragile, and therefore , injured? And in this education, that of being a man in our time, it is to enter more deeply into the "framing" of the personalities. We reject every feeling received as abnormal proof of our sexuality because we simply do not learn to recognize what our emotions are. Love, fear, anger and joy are passed to the blender of patriarchy, for better insensitivity, infinite growth of capital, dehumanization of humanity for a sexualized divisional blindness. "The man "will then learn from his fellow men, that to love life, to be gay is to be gay, only for fear of seeing and understanding, that what women feel, men can too ... only in the ease of giving an explanation to something that we do not know how to do, that we men are not taught to us, to love women by listening to them, just as they listen to us. so easily thereafter, and we see how many men have lost themselves by not having the words, out of pride, will twist with pain, madness to believe that they are not, only, because we learned them from a very young age, to recognize "these people there". If we give ourselves an identity by the fact of feeling an emotions, it is good that we do not learn to manage them, to better understand what that we are from the start, a human being, endowed with sensitivity, to whom the acquired meaning of life is given to us from birth, and gives us so thus, a sense. The fact of being able to discuss it, it is good not to be able to realize the sentimental equality which one has with the opposite sex, and which one thus finds oneself, in a division maintained, in an unsuccessful and unacknowledged search, of a marked inequality with a hot iron and that history perpetuated as a symbol of virtue, that physical difference maintains a difference in emotions. To maintain this is to maintain the head of life underwater, to seek to breathe by whatever means, the right to feel, and to live, until acceptance of being a difference, while it is to accept that which divides. Man or Woman, it's the same, they are made to love each other, understand each other, mate and create life, maintain the aberration of differences, it is to maintain the fact that "Man" in its deepest societal pride, will forever refuse to recognize the existence of its resemblance to what it is not trying to understand, the woman.